Sex Therapy in Seattle | West Seattle & Washington State

Sex Therapy: Enhancing Intimacy & Sexual Well-Being

Sex therapy is a specialized form of psychotherapy designed to help individuals, couples, and polycules navigate sexual concerns, improve intimacy, and foster open communication.

In a safe, judgment-free space, clients explore desires, challenges, and relationship dynamics to create a more fulfilling and pleasurable sex life. Using evidence-based techniques, sex therapy promotes self-awareness, connection, and sexual fulfillment while respecting individual values and boundaries.

Sex therapy is available in-person in West Seattle and virtually across Washington State.

Common Issues Addressed

  • Desire discrepancy

  • Sexual functioning concerns (e.g., erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation)

  • Painful sex

  • Kink & BDSM exploration

  • Out-of-control sexual behavior

  • Navigating non-traditional relationships (consensual non-monogamy, polyamory)

Who Sex Therapy Is For

Sex therapy may be helpful for:

  • Individuals experiencing sexual distress or performance anxiety

  • Couples navigating mismatched desire

  • Partners rebuilding intimacy after betrayal or trauma

  • Clients exploring sexual identity or orientation

  • People experiencing shame, avoidance, or disconnection

  • Polycules and non-traditional relationship structures

  • Individuals seeking to integrate kink or BDSM into relationships safely and consensually

Sexual well-being is relational, emotional, and embodied. Therapy provides structure to approach these topics openly and respectfully.

Our Approach to Sex Therapy

At Equilibrium Therapy Group, sex therapy is grounded in:

  • Evidence-based relational frameworks

  • Trauma-informed care

  • Attachment-based understanding

  • DBT-informed emotional regulation skills

  • Non-judgmental, inclusive practice

We recognize that sexual concerns are rarely isolated from relational patterns, identity development, stress, or past experiences. Therapy focuses on both insight and practical tools for change.

Our work prioritizes:

  • Emotional safety

  • Clear communication

  • Consent and boundaries

  • Compassionate exploration

  • Behavioral skill-building

Addressing Desire Discrepancy

Desire discrepancy is one of the most common concerns in long-term relationships.

Therapy can help couples:

  • Understand underlying relational dynamics

  • Reduce shame or blame

  • Rebuild emotional closeness

  • Develop new patterns of intimacy

  • Increase communication clarity

The goal is not to “fix” one partner, but to understand the system together.

Sexual Functioning & Pain Concerns

Sex therapy may support individuals or couples navigating:

  • Erectile dysfunction

  • Premature ejaculation

  • Low desire

  • Pain during sex

  • Anxiety related to sexual performance

We integrate psychoeducation, emotional processing, and communication skills to reduce distress and increase comfort and confidence.

Sex Therapy in West Seattle

In-person sessions are available at:

3614 California Avenue SW
Seattle, WA 98116

Serving clients in:

  • West Seattle

  • Greater Seattle

  • Surrounding neighborhoods

Virtual Sex Therapy Across Washington State

We offer secure telehealth sex therapy for clients located anywhere in Washington State.

Virtual therapy maintains privacy, flexibility, and structured support.

What Makes Our Sex Therapy Different

Many therapy practices avoid sexual topics or approach them with discomfort.

At Equilibrium Therapy Group, sex therapy is:

  • Evidence-based

  • Trauma-informed

  • Inclusive of LGBTQIA+ identities

  • Affirming of consensual non-monogamy

  • Structured and skills-oriented

  • Grounded in relational frameworks

We create a space where sexual health and intimacy are treated as valid and important aspects of overall well-being.

What to Expect

Initial Consultation

We explore your goals, concerns, and relational context.

Structured Sessions

Sessions may include communication exercises, psychoeducation, regulation tools, and reflective processing.

Ongoing Work

Clients are supported in integrating insights into daily life and relationships.

FAQs

Is sex therapy only for couples?

No. Sex therapy is available for individuals, couples, and polycules.


Is sex therapy appropriate if I have experienced trauma?

Yes. Work is trauma-informed and paced according to your comfort and readiness.


Do you work with LGBTQIA+ clients?

Yes. We provide affirming care for LGBTQIA+ individuals and relationships.


Is sex therapy available virtually?

Yes. We offer secure telehealth sex therapy throughout Washington State.